Please consider a donation in Mel's honor:
Mary Ellen "Mel" Ellwood, a cornerstone of the Riverhead community and a tireless champion for humanitarian service, passed away on May 7, 2026. A woman of deep conviction and action, Mel’s life was defined by the Rotary motto, “Service Above Self.”
Mel was a devoted member of the Riverhead Rotary Club since 2008. Her leadership within the club was distinguished, eventually leading her to serve as its President starting in July 2013. Her commitment to the organization’s mission saw her rise through the ranks to become the District Governor for Rotary District 7255 for the 2021–2022 term. During her tenure, she oversaw dozens of clubs across Long Island, inspiring thousands of members with her vision for community impact and global outreach.
Beyond her volunteer work, Mel was a respected professional in the East End real estate market. As an Associate Broker with Douglas Elliman in Mattituck, she was known for her integrity and deep knowledge of the North Fork. She was a fixture at local events and a mentor to many, always willing to share "Tips and Tricks" for organizational success or professional growth.
Mel will be remembered for her infectious energy, her unwavering dedication to the Riverhead community, and her ability to bring people together for a common cause. Whether she was organizing a local fundraiser or presiding over a district-wide installation, she did so with grace and a focus on helping others.
Visitation for Mel will take place on Thursday, May 14, from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m.
at the McLaughlin Heppner Funeral Home, 336 Marcy Ave., Riverhead, NY. Funeral Mass will take place on Friday, May 15, at 10:30 a.m. at St. John the Evangelist Church, 546 St. John's Pl., Riverhead, NY 11901. Private cremation to follow.
In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to the Riverhead Rotary Club by using the link that follows her pictures.
May God comfort the hearts of all who mourn.
